N evin Valentine and Darrell Holdaway are Relationship Coaches. They mentor couples and help them achieve a shared vision and a deeper connection. They believe that each of us is drawn to the perfect partner for growth and healing and that conflict is the greatest opportunity to regain our wholeness. They teach the Intentional Dialogue, a transformational communication process that promotes understanding, validation and empathy. This skill is also the primary tool they use in the workshops they lead.
They also facilitate Couples Circles. These circles are made up of couples seeking a more conscious relationship. Within the circle, these committed couples are supported by others with similar challenges and dreams. The Couples Circle is a safe environment for appreciating each other, becoming known on a deeper level and creating a more passionate, fulfilling connection.
High school sweethearts, they reunited in early 2000 after three decades apart. Within a month, they were introduced to the Intentional Dialogue, a transformational tool that would prove to be the basis for truly knowing each other. They practice a daily ritual that includes a reading and a recitation of their relationship vision. Their journey includes over ten years of workshops, conferences and training, and took them to the home of Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt in Abiquiu, New Mexico, where they founded, and later became presidents of, Imago Couples International. Soon after, they became certified as relationship coaches through Relationship Coaching Institute.
Nevin and Darrell are dedicated to promoting a society in which love overcomes fear, a culture where people are validated for who they are and are encouraged to reach their highest potential and a world where reactivity is met with curiosity and compassion.
Learn more about Nevin and Darrell on their website.
Darrell’s work with Video Creation NOW
Thirty years of experience in television and video production have given Darrell Holdaway the knowledge and the expertise to create beautiful and effective videos of all types. As a certified Relationship Coach, he also has the training and calling to share his wealth of information with others.
With numerous awards, including four Emmy’s, and a long list of credits, Darrell has the background and dedication needed to produce videos at the highest level from concept through the final edit session and he will guide you through the Video Creation Now lessons with ease. Darrell takes the mystery out of video production and creates a comfortable atmosphere where those seeking to create their own videos will thrive.
Darrell now combines his passion for video production with his desire to connect with others. For over twenty years an editor for “ABC7 News” in San Francisco, he has also worked for KPIX, KRON and CNBC. He has contributed to “Nightline,” “World News Tonight” and “Good Morning America” and his work has been featured on CBS’s “Eye On America.” With his wife, Nevin Valentine, M.A., he now practices relationship coaching in Southern California. His connection with Veronika Tracy-Smith and Video Creation Now provides Darrell with the perfect outlet to help others succeed.
Darrell credits much of his success to the many talented professionals who have been there along the way. From “Monday Night Football” to the “Academy Awards,” the summer Olympics to the Super Bowl, he has worked with and learned from the best. He now takes the role of mentor as he illuminates the path for others, including you.



